My Dearest Bridesmaids,
I hope this letter finds you in good spirits and with open hearts.
As the date of your impending nuptials draws near, I find myself wrestling with a profound sense of unease. After careful deliberation and much soul-searching, I have come to the difficult decision to tender my resignation as a bridesmaid in your wedding.
This decision weighs heavily upon me, and it is not one that I have made lightly. I have always cherished our friendship, and I value the bond we have forged over the years. However, recent events have led me to believe that my continued participation in your wedding party would be a disservice to both you and myself.
As you know, I have always been a fiercely independent and forthright person. I have never shied away from expressing my opinions, even when they differ from the majority. While I have always respected your choices and decisions, I cannot in good conscience stand by and endorse certain aspects of your wedding plans.
Specifically, I have reservations about the exorbitant cost of the wedding. I understand that weddings can be expensive, but I believe that the amount of money you are spending is excessive and unnecessary. I worry that you are setting yourselves up for a lifetime of debt, and I cannot support that decision.
Additionally, I am concerned about the lack of diversity in your wedding party. As a woman of color, I feel that it is important to have representation in all aspects of life, including weddings. I am disappointed that you have not made a conscious effort to include more people of color in your wedding party, and I believe that this oversight sends a harmful message.
I am aware that my decision may come as a disappointment, and for that, I am truly sorry. I have always admired your strength, your determination, and your love for [groom’s name]. I wish you nothing but happiness in your marriage.
I hope that you can understand and respect my decision. I will always cherish the memories we have made together, and I hope that our friendship will continue to grow and flourish in the years to come.
With love and empathy,
[Your name].
